For parents whose kid's behavior explodes past every app and parenting book

The Lower Expectations Starter Kit. Free, from Dandelion.

A free starter kit for parents of kids whose behavior is explosive, aggressive, or confusing. Two expectations are wrecking your evenings: one sits on your kid and one sits on you. Lower the right one on purpose and watch what changes. Neither of you is failing. The bar was written for a different kid and a different parent. Matching it to the family you actually have is when things start to change.

The manifesto: the permission slip nobody hands you. Five-minute read.

The Expectation Audit: find the one expectation that ends most of your nights in a fight.

The Lower Expectations Ladder: how to drop it one notch without giving up.

The Out-In-The-World Plan: make school, the store, and the birthday party survivable again.

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